Emotional Me

It is completely normal to have inconsistent feelings about what is going on with you and your partner.  Below is a list of common feelings, but please add to the list if you have others.
 
How do you maintain balance when you are experiencing all of this??
 
ANGER
RESENTMENT (Of others, your body, and sex)
SADNESS
GRIEF/LOSS (Of your dream or feeling whole)
CONFUSED
GUILT
SHAME/ EMBARRASSMENT
LOSS OF CONTROL
FEEL LIKE A SCIENCE EXPERIMENT (not a person, just a body)
DISAPPOINTMENT
LOSS OF SEXUALITY (Obligation, represents failure, detached, etc.)
NEED FOR SECRETCY (Personal, invasive procedures, self-preservation)
ISOLATED/DISCONNECTED
NUMBNESS/APATHETIC
FRUSTRATION (With body, life is on hold, no long-term planning)
INDIGNITY
VICTIMIZED
INTIMIDATED
OUTSIDE OF SELF
VULNERABILITY
SENSITIVITY
ANXIETY (Cost of procedures, evasiveness of procedures, and outcome)
SELF PUNISHMENT/BLAME (not meant to be, don’t deserve,  if only…)
OVERWHELMED
STRESSED
CHANGE OR LOSS OF IDENTITY
MISUNDERSTOOD
FRAGILE
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